Saturday, October 1, 2016

Seven years


Seven years ago today I hit the "publish" button on Far Above Rubies with this post.

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Things have certainly changed in seven years. 


I started blogging after being part of the community on HGTV's "Rate My Space" web site. 

It was ruthless. Some of you were there and you remember.

People were unkind, and I should have known better, but I enjoyed sharing what I do in my home and wanted to continue. 

I am thankful that I met some nice people there, a few of whom I still "see" virtually in this crazy and ever-changing world of blogging. 


It's funny because no one ever said, "Anita, you should start a blog." But I've always been stubborn and apparently like the challenge of an uphill battle so I hit "publish."

I have to admit, I wanted to stop many times, especially when blogging turned into a competition for followers, sponsors, and then money. I was always playing catch-up, but my ultimate purpose --sharing what I did in my own home and hoping to inspire others, kept me going. 

That -- and the comments from sweet friends who inspired me, and still do. 

I finally gave up on growing numbers, sponsors, SEO and affiliate marketing and decided that I just need to be myself and share what I do here, whether anyone followed or not. The bottom line is I needed to be me, and not copy trends or spend money trying to keep up with those trends. I kept telling myself that someone, somewhere might just be in the same boat as me -- no budget, but still craving a beautiful and welcoming space. 

You see, the reality is, we don't have a big house with lots of rooms perfectly styled, and I don't head off to a big box store when I want to change my decor or keep up with the latest trend. Because we have been in ministry, our budget is severely limited, so I have learned to use what I find on the property to recycle or repurpose and make everything I can. 

And that has made me more creative, and even more convinced that I just need to be me. 

And I have tried to stick to that. The result is, that over the years I have really found the combination of things I like -- that make me smile whenever I walk into any room in my house. And staying true to myself has opened up doors with magazine editors that I *never* would have thought possible. 

I have enjoyed the process, and I've learned a lot through it. And the funny thing is, it doesn't seem like it's been seven years until I look back and see how much things have changed. 


I thought some of you might want to take a look back with me:-)


Seven years seems like a long time, but when I look at my family, seven years have flown by.

 When I started blogging, my kids were just 3, 7 and 9.



From these babies...


...to this.

My 16, 14 and 10-year-old big kids.


Things have certainly changed a lot in our house as well. 

First up is the living area.

2008

2011

2012

2013

2014


2015

2016

2016

Next is the dining area. Some of you might remember it was in a different spot when I started blogging. This has since become my music space.

2008

2011

2012

Then I switched everything around and moved the dining space to this end of the long living area. 

2013

2014

2015

2016

And the kitchen. Oh boy. 

2009

2011

2012

2014

2015



2016


The girls' room went from this:


...to this in 2014.


And finally, the master bedroom. 

I *never* ever blogged about this version:-)

2008

2009

2013

2014


2016


I have truly enjoyed sharing our humble house and everything we have done to make it into a home. 

I have learned that chasing trends is, well, trendy. And that doesn't last. 

I have learned to fill my home with things that *mean* something to me. 

I have learned to recycle, repurpose and reuse wherever possible.

Because there is already too much junk piling up polluting the planet.

I have learned that bigger and more expensive is not better. 

I have learned that having a small house means my family and I are together more. 

But mostly I have learned that the people in it are what make a house a home. 

My people.

My home:-)

So maybe I can thank blogging for helping me to see that my home is unique to me and my family.
My home tells our unique story. 
My home makes us feel safe and secure -- even when nothing in this world feels safe and secure. 

And that's how it should be.

Thank you, thank you, thank you to those of you who have been coming by and visiting this blog. You are truly special and appreciated. 
You inspire me.
You encourage me.
You are why I keep on hitting the "publish" button.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart:-)


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50 comments:

  1. Marty@A Stroll Thru LifeOctober 1, 2016 at 11:46 AM

    I have loved following along for years. Keep on hitting the "publish" button, your posts are always inspirational.

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    1. Marty, thank you SO very much for always encouraging and inspiring. Thank you for always being so sweet, and for including my on your amazing tours. That has meant the world to me:-)

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  • Beautiful transformations through the years and your family, lovely. I've been reading your blog the past few years and always admire how true to heart you incorporate family treasures in your home. A gorgeous retreat and better yet, in the woods, near family too:).
    Love the apple dishes!
    Kathleen in Az

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    1. Thank you Kathleen for stopping by and for always leaving such nice comments. It mean so much!

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  • Hi Anita, I first read about you and your decorating adventures in Country Woman magazine. After I read the article, I went straight to your blog to see what it was all about. I've very much admired your blog for the simple reason that you stuck to your own style. It was refreshing. So neat to see how your decorating has evolved over the years. I've also greatly appreciated the times when you've shared about your and Luis' walk with God and your faith, on the blog and on Facebook. Happy Blogiversary! I hope you continue to share your beautiful photography too! It's also my hobby, but I am a work in progress. ;)

    God bless you,
    Andrea

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    1. Andrea, thank you so very much:-) We are all a work in progress for sure:-)

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  • Thank you, Anita for staying with it. I love your home and I'm pretty sure your home loves you! Oh do I remember Rate my Space, I think sometimes it was an invitation for people to Hate my Space! Boy, that was rough and fun at the same time!

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    1. Ha, yes, it was definitely that! I guess that is why they ended up getting rid of it. That negativity only goes so far:-) Thanks so much for being here!

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  • I love your blog and whenever you have a new post, I always think to myself, "Oh goody!" I think you have done such a marvelous job with your home. I have been inspired so many times by you. Thank you so much and congratulations on seven years!

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    1. Goodness, Arell, that is such a kind thing to say. I appreciate you so much, thank you:-)

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  • Congratulations on seven years of blogging, Anita! It will be six years for me in January. :) It's hard to believe when I think about it.

    I really enjoy reading your blog and seeing what you've done with your home. I don't like trendy, either, and at this point in my life, I feel like it's just money down the drain. I want our house to reflect us. You've done a great job with your home!

    Have a great weekend!

    Hugs,

    Denise at Forest Manor

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    1. It goes by fast, doesn't it? Thanks so much Denise!!

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  • Pinky at Designs by PinkyOctober 2, 2016 at 3:24 PM

    I have enjoyed following you for years too. I remember many of these changes. I always LOVE your tables outside as your setting reminds me SO much of our last house. I totally agree, I have almost stopped blogging at times because there was so much competition. I even had a BIG BLOGGER ask me once how long I was going to continue since I didn't make any money from it. Well, like you I just enjoy doing it, don't follow any trends and surround myself with what WE love. I smile every time I walk into different rooms so that is what is important, at least to me. Keep on publishing, Anita. And God bless you and your beautiful family.

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    1. I know, it has been crazy at times Pinky!! So happy you have kept at it as well:-) Thank you so much!!

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  • Oh, how rarely do I comment on any blog ever---but you make me weak, lady, so I simply must fight this keyboard and speak up! Anita, I do not use these words lightly, and I am not speaking about just your blogging when I say this, but for me, you are a shining star in every way. First, it is your spirit (that love you feel for the Lord and people and this gift of life) bursting through that makes you, your very cool mountain home, your decor and this blog "far above rubies". Your style is such a bright spot in this washed out, extremely BORING, BLAND, TYPICAL, tired, never ending cookie cutter landscape of decorating blogs for the very reasons you said yourself above...you simply share what is Anita and not a speck of anything else! And it is your weaving of old and new, this and that, function and glamour--right along side nature--that is your special magic! You have a wonderful sense of style, and man oh man, do I dig it!!
    One more thing. I just want to say a huge thanks for not monetizing this space . I am able to shop all by myself and will no longer visit such blogs, especially when they used to let me peek in without having to fight through the insanity of all those dang ads! Not enough time in my day!
    I save time for your beautiful blog so I can simply sit and savor it....as it should be. Thank you so much for sharing yourself as you do!--Connie

    PS: We're neighbors, too...upstate SC here!

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    1. Oh Connie, I just don't have words:-) Thank you so very much for you very kind and encouraging words. They means so much to me, I don't know how to say thank you. I hope I can continue to bring something fresh and unique. Thank you, thank you:-) On another note, we go down to Greenville, SC, Taylors actually, to do a WGGS TV show about twice a year:-)

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  • Shirley@Housepitality DesignsOctober 2, 2016 at 5:11 PM

    Anita...I have LOVED following you through the years...and what I love the most is that you have stayed true to yourself....and when you do that, everything falls into place...the house, like life. You have certainly reaped what you have sowed....an amazing journey these past 7 years. Your family is beautiful...I can just imagine that they are such kind souls, as you!...Happy 7th Blogaversary and I look forward to many more beautiful years of your home!!

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    1. Thank you so much Shirley!! You certainly are an inspiration, and I must say, your kindness is unique and stands out:-) Thanks for being here and for encouraging me:-)

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  • Congratulations on eight years, Anita! I think you are very creative and it shows with all your posts. It's very easy to follow but much more is required when going your own unique way. Thank goodness you do and I will be cheering with you for eight more years!

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    1. Oh Janet, thank you for that and for always coming by to leave a comment. It means so much:-)

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  • Congratulations on your blog anniversary, Anita. I loved reading what you have learned over the last seven years of blogging and seeing the photos of your beautiful children during that time. I think you have always had a very original decorating style, and now you have really come in to a unique way of styling your rooms that is immediately recognizable as all yours. I admire you for being wonderfully different in our cookie-cutter world, something that is becoming harder and harder to do. You are one of the few truly creative home decor bloggers and it's been a pleasure to follow you. Here's to many more years!

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    1. Oh Laurel, thank you so much for those kind words. It means a lot to me:-)

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  • I'm glad you kept going with your blog. I've only been following you for about a year, and I must say that I am envious of your music space, and your daughters' room is so unique and pretty, your porches are so welcoming and enticing, and wherever that pink rug goes I will follow! I've really enjoyed watching how you change your look with rearranging the lovely pieces you already have, and I really like all the colors you use everywhere. Congratulations on the 7 year anniversary!

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    1. Thank you so much!! I know, the pink rug is my obsession, I think:-) I really appreciate your being here!

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  • Shenita @ Embellishments by SLROctober 3, 2016 at 8:08 PM

    Anita, congratulations on 7 years of your wonderful blog! You were one of the first people that I followed when I started in 2011. You know that I just love your use of color and sentimental keepsakes in your home. I can't get on the trendy bandwagon either; and have tried to stay true to what I love. I get so excited each time you put up a new post! I love everything that you do! You so deserve all of the good things that have come your way! Wishing you many more years of happy blogging!

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    1. Thank you Shenita!! You have always been encouraging and I so appreciate your sweet spirit and great style:-)

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